Nap time wisdom and unpacking my issues

The definition of belonging, according to the ever-insightful Brene Brown:

"Belonging is the innate human desire to be a part of something larger than us. Because this yearning is so primal, we often try to acquire it by fitting in and by seeking approval—which are not only hollow substitutes for belonging but often barriers to it. Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self acceptance.

In addition to cultivating love, I think maybe the most important mission for our families is to create a sense of belonging for our children. 

'Fitting in' is the primary barrier to belonging. Fitting in is about assessing a situation and acclimating. Who do I need to become in order to believe I am accepted here?

'Belonging', on the other hand, is showing up, being real, being authentic, and letting ourselves be seen."